18 Japanese Etiquettes and Customs Every Tourist Should Know : Part 1 of 2

Introduction

Hey there, fellow explorers! Before you start stuffing your suitcase for your epic trip to Japan, let’s make sure you know the basics when it comes to Japanese customs and etiquettes.

As a seasoned traveler who has fallen head over heels for this country, let me tell you, Japanese culture is a treasure trove of tradition and subtleties, and Japanese people are the most friendly and considerate I have seen anywhere.

By learning some Japanese etiquettes and respecting their customs, you’ll avoid any embarrassing mishaps, receive much appreciation from locals, and ensure a much smoother and more enjoyable vacation.

This post is Part 1 of 2 parts, and will cover the etiquettes and customs applied when you are in public or using public transport, such as trains, subways, or buses.

The next post (Part 2) will discuss etiquettes tips and customs for when you visit a shrine, temple, hot springs (onsen), and eating manners in Japan.

Custom and Etiquette Tips When In Public

1. Bowing

Ah, the bow—a cornerstone of Japanese culture. This subtle art form conveys respect, gratitude, and acknowledgement.

Whether it’s a slight nod of the head or a deeper bow, this traditional greeting is deeply rooted in Japanese culture. The key to bowing is to bend at the waist, keeping your back straight.

The general rule of thumb? The more formal the situation, the deeper the bow. When unsure, a slight nod of the head and a smile can save the day.

2. Removing Shoes When Indoor

When entering a Japanese home, ryokan (traditional inn), temple, or certain restaurants, be prepared to slip off your shoes and step into a pair of provided slippers, or simply go with socks on.

This custom is not only about cleanliness but also a sign of respect and consideration for the hosts or household.

Pay attention to signs indicating where to remove your shoes and where to switch to slippers. Oh, and never wear slippers on tatami mats—stick to socks only.

3. Queuing Up : The Civilized Art of Waiting in Line

In Japan, queuing is a serious business – a sign of order and respect. Whether you’re buying a ticket, waiting for a train, entering a popular tourist attraction, or even paying for a snack at a convenience store, respect the queue.

line of people customers queueing waiting patiently

Join the end of the line – no cutting, pushing, or shoving. The Japanese highly value consideration and order, so embrace your inner zen and wait your turn.

Master the art of patience and queueing, and you’ll earn the appreciation of locals and fellow travelers alike.

4. No Tipping, No Problem!

Are you used to tipping generously back home? Well, hold onto those extra yen! In Japan, tipping is not customary and can even be seen as an insult.

The Japanese take great pride in their work. Excellent service is expected every single time, and the price includes it. So, sit back, relax, and let the exceptional service speak for itself.

5. Keeping Your Voice Down

In Japan, being mindful of noise is crucial, especially in public or shared spaces. The Japanese truly take pride in maintaining a peaceful and harmonious environment in everyday life.

So, lower your voice when in conversations, or better yet, keep quiet when sharing space with other people, such as in elevators, restaurants, or in trains and subways. Your fellow travelers will thank you for it!

6. Respecting the Elders

If you see elderly people, treat them with respect, bow, and yield your seat on public transportation to elderly passengers or those in need. It’s a small gesture that goes a long way in showing your respect and consideration.

7. Refraining from Public Displays of Affection (PDA)

Here’s a heads up. Public displays of affection like kissing or making out aren’t really a thing there. Japanese people are more reserved and shy when it comes to physical affection in public.

So, to avoid awkward cultural blunders or making the others feel uncomfortable, it’s better to save your lovey-dovey moments for private spaces. Happy travels!

8. Being Punctual

Did you know that being on time is a big deal in Japan? Yup, it’s true! In Japan, punctuality is highly valued. Being fashionably late isn’t really a thing here, and it could even come off as disrespectful.

Whether it’s for a scheduled appointment, a meetup with someone, or a restaurant reservation, strive to be on time or even a few minutes early. Set your alarm, double-check your itinerary, and be prompt.

9. Elevator Manner

assist others with opening closing doors and floor buttons when standing closest to elevator door

When getting in any elevator in Japan, if you’re the closest to the button panel, please operate the buttons by and holding the door open for others and closing it when everyone is in.

If you are comfortable enough, go one step further and help enter the floor buttons for surrounding people.

10. “Sumimasen” – The Magic Word of Apology

“Sumimasen”, the multi-purpose word in Japan, is like a linguistic Swiss Army knife, offering a range of meanings such as “excuse me,” “I’m sorry,” or even “thank you.” Here’s a friendly guide on when to whip out this versatile phrase :

When you need attention or a helping hand, just throw in a cheerful “sumimasen!”
Oops, did you accidentally bump into someone? No worries, just say “sumimasen” with a friendly smile and a bow to apologize.
Feeling grateful for someone’s assistance or a favor? Express your appreciation by giving a heartfelt “sumimasen.”

With this simple word in your vocabulary, you’ll be ready to tackle most social situation with a touch of sincerity and charm.

11. Covering Any Tattoos

vibrant body tattoos arm tattoos covering up in Japan yakuza taboo

While tattoos have gained popularity worldwide, they still carry a stigma in Japan due to their association with the yakuza. Consider these tips :

Cover your tattoos in public places whenever possible.
Be mindful of hot springs (onsen), public baths (sento), and gyms with strict no-tattoo policies.
If you have a visible tattoo, politely ask about the establishment’s policy up front before entering the premise.

12. Understanding and Practicing the Concept of “Wa”

In Japanese culture, the concept of “wa” revolves around living in harmony and finding peace in all aspects of life, especially when interacting with others, over personal interests.

So, to truly embrace “wa,” it’s important to be mindful of those around you, abide by rules and guidelines, and adapt to the social norms of your surroundings.

By showing your respect and contributing positively, you’ll create a friendly and peaceful atmosphere that fosters harmony, and have a much more pleasant experience during your vacation.

Etiquette Tips When Navigating Public Transport

Japan’s public transport system is a marvel, but it can be daunting for first-timers. Fear not—I’ve got you covered with these handy tips :

1. Riding Escalator the Correct Way

When riding the escalators, stand on the left side of escalators. Leave the right open and free for those in a hurry to walk on by.

2. Line up and Wait

When waiting for your trains, make sure to line up in an orderly manner. Do not cut in.

And when the train doors open, wait for others to exit the train first before boarding.

3. Paying Attention When Boarding

For those of you who are unfamiliar with boarding trains and subways, watch out for the gap between the platform and the train when boarding. Avoid tripping and becoming a viral sensation on the internet.

4. Keeping Your Voice Down, and No Talking on Your Phone

Maintaining silence onboard is much preferred. Or keep your voice low if you need to communicating among your group.

passengers on train subway quietly sitting silent not talking mindfulness

Avoid talking on your phone in trains and buses at all cost. This is considered very rude behavior in Japan. It is best to silence your phone’s ringers, or listen to music or watch videos with your headphones on.

Be mindful of others around you, and preserve the quietness and peacefulness when being in shared space.

5. No Eating or Drinking

Eating or drinking on buses, trains, or subways is not allowed, and perceived to be very rude and tactless.

However, you can eat and drink on shinkansen (bullet trains) or long-distanced train rides, as it is part of the experience and the Japanese culture. Just make sure you don’t talk at the same time while eating or drinking, as it’s considered very rude around others.

no food or drink or eating on subway and train in Japan

6. Removing Your Backpack

Take your backpack off your back, and wear it on the front when entering trains, buses, or subways. This will prevent it from accidentally whacking other people while you move around onboard.

Or better yet, put it on your lap or between your legs while sitting, or simply place on the overhead rack. Don’t put in next to you, otherwise you’re taking up twice the space.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Is it true that there are no public trash cans anywhere on the streets?

Yes, it’s true. Why, you ask? Well, let me tell you a little story. Back in the day, in 1995 to be precise, Tokyo had a domestic terrorist attack that led to multiple deaths and injuries. As a result, the government decided to play it safe and remove all the trash cans from the streets as a counter-terrorism measure.

So, what’s a visitor to do with their garbage? Don’t worry, my friend! Just put it in a plastic bag, hang onto it in your bag, and when you come back to your hotel, or pass a convenience store or large department store, you can dispose it there. Easy peasy, right? Let’s keep those streets clean.

Is it necessary to learn some basic Japanese phrases before visiting Japan?

Absolutely! While some Japanese people understand basic English, making an effort to learn a few simple phrases like “hello,” “thank you,” and “excuse me” will go a long way in bridging the language gap and showing respect for the local culture.

Can I take pictures of people in Japan?

It’s always best to ask for permission before taking someone’s picture, especially if you’re capturing their face up close. Most people in Japan are friendly and approachable, so don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation and request their permission—it might even lead to a memorable cultural exchange!

Can I smoke in public places in Japan?

Japan has strict smoking regulations, and smoking in public areas is prohibited. Look out for designated smoking areas or smoking rooms in certain establishments. If unsure, ask and you will be directed.

Is it normal to tip tour guides in Japan?

In Japan, tipping tour guides is not a common practice. Guides are usually compensated through their fees, and tipping may even be declined. Instead, express your appreciation through a heartfelt thank you or a small gift.

Can I wear traditional Japanese clothing as a tourist?

Absolutely! Many tourists enjoy renting and wearing traditional Japanese clothing such as kimono or yukata.

is it normal to haggle for prices in shops or markets?

Haggling is not common in Japan. The displayed prices are considered final.

Are taxi doors in Japan automatically open and close?

Yes, very fancy and convenient for white-gloves taxi driver to push a button and open or close doors for passengers. So don’t grab and yank the door handles when you get in – your driver will help you with that!

Conclusion

By embracing these cultural tips, you will not only navigate Japan with ease but also leave a good impression on the locals. Safe travels and enjoy every moment of your Japan vacation!

If you have any questions or just want to share your own travel stories, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to reach out to me at evelyn@japanoncloudnine.com, and let’s chat. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog post, and happy travels in Japan!

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18 Japanese Etiquettes and Customs Every Tourist Should Know : Part 1 of 2

Introduction